When it comes to 2025 weddings, the phrase on every stylish couple’s lips is “quiet luxury.” Paired with the timeless elegance of the old money aesthetic, this understated-yet-opulent style is stealing the show—and frankly, we’re obsessed. At Potomac Point Winery, our European-inspired architecture, sweeping vineyard views, and timeless charm make the perfect backdrop for this elevated vibe.

Here’s how to infuse your wedding day with these on-trend (but forever classic) elements:

Monochromatic Florals & Natural Textures

Quiet luxury is never loud—it whispers. Florals in a muted palette of whites, creams, and soft greens paired with textural elements like linen runners, ceramic vessels, and flowing greenery bring a natural sophistication. Our vineyard pergola and indoor spaces lend themselves beautifully to these organic yet elevated arrangements.


The Return of the Veil & Couture Minimalism

Brides are channeling Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy and Grace Kelly with sleek silhouettes, silk gowns, and cathedral-length veils. The goal? To look effortlessly elegant. Our Mediterranean-style winery offers the kind of dreamy photo backdrops that enhance these clean, classic looks.


Live Musicians, Not Spotify Playlists

A string quartet during cocktail hour? Yes, please. The Old Money crowd favors live music over digital playlists—and our patio overlooking the vineyard creates the perfect setting for live serenades.


Timeless Photography with a Film Look

Forget overly posed, hyper-edited shots. Today’s luxury brides are opting for editorial-style photography with a soft film aesthetic. Our ivy-covered walls, rolling hills, and golden hour glow make Potomac Point Winery a photographer’s dream.


Candlelight, Everywhere

Lighting is key to setting a luxurious tone. Hundreds of candles—from taper to votive—can transform our ballroom or wine cave into a moody, romantic dreamscape. Add in warm uplighting and vintage candelabras for that “heirloom elegance” vibe.


Subtle Branding & Family Crests

Personalized wax seals, embroidered monograms on napkins, or vintage family crests are a nod to generational wealth and legacy. Incorporate your initials or a bespoke emblem into your menus, place cards, or wedding favors. Subtle, personal, and oh-so-luxe.

Floral Aisles & Arches That Whisper Romance

A lush, floral-lined aisle and an arch overflowing with soft whites and greenery make for a sophisticated ceremony moment. It’s graceful, photogenic, and the kind of understated drama that Old Money couples love.


Simple but Chic Cake Displays & Dessert Bars

Quiet luxury means thoughtful presentation. Showcase your cake on a pedestal draped in soft linen with surrounding florals or opt for a curated dessert bar featuring delicate sweets and rich bites. Minimal doesn’t mean boring—it means intentional.


Neutral Shades for the Wedding Party

Dress your squad in soft taupe, champagne, dove gray, or ivory to keep the look cohesive and elegant. This neutral palette complements our vineyard and Mediterranean backdrop beautifully and photographs like a dream.


Hire a Live Painter

Capturing your ceremony or first dance with a live painter is an Old Money-level detail that feels incredibly bespoke. It’s timeless art meets modern romance—and your guests will be mesmerized.


Vintage Getaway CarsBride in the getaway car

There’s nothing quite as chic as exiting your wedding in a classic vintage ride. Whether it’s a Rolls Royce or a convertible from the ‘60s, it adds a touch of timeless grandeur to your arrival or sendoff photos.


Small But Luxurious Bites

Elevate your culinary experience with passed hors d’oeuvres, an artisanal charcuterie display, and a dinner that pairs each course with one of our award-winning wines. Quiet luxury isn’t about having more, it’s about having better—and our culinary team delivers just that.


Black Tie Optional (Or Mandatory!)

Want to lean into the upscale vibes? Set the tone with a black-tie dress code. Guests will arrive looking their absolute best, and your celebration will instantly feel like a refined, high-society soirée.

Long Tables & Classic Centerpieces

Ditch overly styled tablescapes and go for long tables with clean white linens, taper candles, and understated floral centerpieces. It’s intimate, elegant, and exudes a refined European charm.


Clear Signage & White Florals Everywhere

Signage should be minimal, classic, and cohesive with the rest of your design. Acrylic or linen signs in neutral tones are ideal. Pair this with an abundance of white florals and greenery throughout the venue for an effortlessly polished look.


Choosing the right venue is the cornerstone of achieving that Old Money aesthetic—it’s truly 75% of nailing the vibe. Look for settings that evoke timeless elegance: European-inspired architecture, manicured gardens or sprawling vineyards, and grand ballrooms adorned with chandeliers. At Potomac Point Winery, you’ll find all of the above, setting the stage for a wedding that feels effortlessly luxurious and forever iconic.  Download our wedding packet & book a personal tour to discover why Potomac Point Winery is the perfect match for your Old Money, Quiet Luxury affair.